Monday, December 22, 2025

Boumans by the Danube - December 2025

 Bouman December 2025 Letter

 

“The world will learn the ways of war no longer… 

O veni, veni, Emmanuel come soon!”

 

Dear friends,

 

I am writing after the sun has set on Sunday, taking us into the longest night of the year. Something about the way winter solstice crashed into the fourth Sunday of Advent this year captivated me today. Below are a few updates on our recent transition from Hungary to the United States – a temporary stay of six months.

 

As Advent began, we left our home in Hungary for our Cohort Europe intensive in Spain. We had four whirlwind days of learning and experiencing ministry in cultural and historical context. This region’s proximity to the northern coast of Africa, and Morocco in particular, provides an enormous opportunity for the church there to serve those arriving in search of safety, protection, opportunity, and for new life. While there, we toured the Diez42 Center, a non-profit ministry in Malaga where Dasha and Juste both volunteer each week alongside our Resonate colleagues Gary and Rachel DeLeón, serving refugees in a variety of ways. We also drove on the A7 “Autovia del Mediterráneo” or Mediterrean Highway from Malaga to Almería with jaw-dropping views of the sea, and there we met a Brazilian pastor who with his wife lives in Almería and partners with the International Red Cross to meet migrants arriving by boat – it’s about a nine-hour journey in small boats from ports in northern Morocco, and the humanitarian teams provide immediate care and both physical and emotional assistance as people arrive. We also toured a small part of the enormous sea of makeshift, tarp-covered greenhouses, or “invernaderos” that stretch as far as the eye can see in this area. It’s a form of intensive agriculture that we learned provides a large percentage of vegetables for all of Europe. Because of the loosely regulated labor practices of the invernaderos, immigrant labor (and housing and other forms of resettlement for new arrivals) is as an area of rampant exploitation. We left with many questions about economic justice. We also visited another coastal town, Almuñécar, where we met a Reformed Protestant pastor who planted a small church in the early 2000s. And in the historic city of Granada, we toured the fortress and gardens of the Alhambra, an ancient jewel of Islamic architecture and history. We also enjoyed a generous invitation to an authentic Thanksgiving dinner with several missionary families, as well as a chance to worship in Spanish at the church where Juste and Dasha attend. Overall, it was a special time well-spent in learning together. And we were once again humbled by our young colleagues in this work – a reminder that we are privileged to work with a team made up of a Lithuanian – Justė, a Ukrainian – Dasha, and a Syrian – Pamela. In our prayers together we pray in Arabic (Pamela), in Lithuanian (Justė), and sometimes in Ukrainian and sometimes Spanish, sometimes German, and sometimes English – reminder of the breadth and rich variety of the Kingdom of heaven. We will begin recruiting young adults in the new year for Cohort Europe 2026-27, so please send us any connections you might have for folks 20-30ish who might be feeling called to a year of service in Europe.

 

After the intensive time ended, we visited our friends and Resonate colleagues Tony and Stacey Meyer in Madrid, where they serve Mountainview International Church. They took us to tour historic Segovia, and into Madrid, where we spent two days walking through the ancient streets and learning about Spain’s historic empire. We also toured the Museo Nacionale Centro de Arte – Reina Sofia, where one of the most famous Spanish paintings is exhibited, the 1937 Picasso work “Guernica,” which is among the most well-known artistic renderings of the horrors of war. It was mesmerizing and daunting to ponder. Then on Sunday we were able to worship with Mountainview church - a highlight - we met folks from many places and celebrated the second Sunday in Advent together. 

 

We flew back to the US on December 11, where we will be until late May. We were greeted by an early dose of an old-fashioned Michigan winter, with lots of snow and very cold temperatures. So far, we are enjoying reunions with friends, family, and almost-forgotten American habits like driving or using a dryer. We will be living in the in-between for the awhile, enjoying things here and missing things there, just in reverse of what has become our Hungarian normal. A highlight for us is certainly being able to worship for Advent III and Advent IV services and the annual Candlelight and Christmas services at Neland Church, our sending and home church community. Feels like home. This week we look forward to spending time with Bastian, Abi and Moss, and Jeff’s extended family, and on Christmas day we will drive to Pennsylvania to spend several days visiting with Julie’s mom and her sister Kristy’s family. 

 

Friends, as the news of the world wearies us and wears us down with stories of violence, arrogance, much fear, and millions displaced and on the run, we are leaning into stories of brave followers of Jesus, who himself began his most unlikely human life on the run to Egypt, and who demonstrated for us that it is the poor, the widow, the orphan, the refugee and immigrant who are especially favored in the Kingdom of God, with or without papers to prove it. We find ourselves drawn to the poets, the prophets, the artists, and the more we listen, often in community, the more we learn that those questions deep in our hearts and souls, those questions have been shared throughout history by honest followers. And the stories of this season, of the angels’ visits to Mary and to Joseph, the star, the manger, the angels, the bitter cold and poverty of Joseph and Mary in Bethlehem, the shepherds, the Magi’s journey and gifts, and all the rest – those stories bring us into a confident mystery – this baby who grew up to show us the way, this baby is worth the wonder. Following him, we travel through cold and darkness waiting for the light, the re-creation of all things, together. 

 

We wish you all a Merry Christmas, filled with wonder and awe.

Peace and joy,

 

Jeff and Julie Bouman

 

How to Give

As we approach the midpoint of our fiscal year, our current percentage raised is around 41%, and we would love to see that at 50% by the end of December. Giving patterns in missions appear to be changing. As a result, there is increased need for your direct support. In this giving season, we ask that you consider a special or an increased gift to our ministry through Resonate. We cannot do the work that God has called us to without your generosity. Thank you!

  • Give online, be sure to choose the “Missionaries-Europe” option under “Please select” and then the drop-down menu for “Jeff and Julie Bouman”
  • Mail checks to Resonate Gift Processing, PO Box 30006, Lansing, MI 48909-9760
  • Please also consider an extra gift to one of our three Cohort Europe participants – each of these young women comes from a country where missionary giving is not as culturally common as it is for Americans and Canadians.

For Dasha, from Ukraine, give here.

For Pamela, from Syria, give here.

For Justė, from Lithuania, give here.

Each of these members of Cohort has been challenged to raise $10,000, and we trust God to provide for each of them as they serve.

 

A few poems and lyrics from contemporary prophets and poets…

 

TO KNOW THE DARK

by Wendell Berry

 

To go in the dark with a light is to know the light.

To know the dark, go dark. Go without sight,

and find that the dark, too, blooms and sings,

and is traveled by dark feet and dark wings.

 

“Descent”

 by Luci Shaw

 

Down he came from up,

and in from out,

and here from there.

A long leap,

an incandescent fall

from magnificent

to naked, frail, small,

through space,

between stars,

into our chill night air,

shrunk, in infant grace,

to our damp, cramped

earthy place

among all

the shivering sheep.

And now, after all,

there he lies,

fast asleep.

 

Song: “My Soul Cries Out with a Joyful Shout!” (Rory Cooney)

 

Though the nations rage from age to age, we remember who holds us fast
God's mercy must deliver us from the conqueror's crushing grasp
This saving word that our forebears heard is the promise which holds us bound
'Til the spear and rod can be crushed by God, who is turning the world around…


Cohort Europe Dasha, Justė, and Pamela with Gary DeLeón at
Diez42, in Malaga, Spain.

The Alhambra in Granada, Spain.

Lunch with the DeLeóns.

In Segovia, Spain with Tony and Stacey Meyer.

Welcome to Michigan treats!

Puzzle time in person with Grandma Bouman,
and Bastian.



Advent and the solstice.

A birthday Spanish paella for two, in Malaga Spain, on 
Julie's birthday November 27.


 

Boumans by the Danube - November 2025

 Boumans by the Danube November 2025

Dear friends,


Julie and I are in the midst of a challenging season of packing up for a six-month absence, so this update will be just two stories. On Thanksgiving Day next week (also Julie’s birthday!), we will fly to Malaga, Spain for a four-day Cohort Europe intensive weekend. Following our time in Malaga, we will spend a few more days visiting friends and Resonate colleagues Tony and Stacey Meyer in Madrid, where they serve the Mountain View church… And then on December 10 we fly from Spain to the US to begin our six-month time away from Hungary. Thank you to so many of you who responded to our September letter with ideas and offers for a place for us to stay in Grand Rapids. We have found a lovely house to rent in Alger Heights, centrally located near our own house and Bastian, my mom, other dear friends, and our home church Neland Avenue church. We will be in the US through May. 

Romania Intensive – Cohort Europe

Since our last letter our highlights have included a superb Cohort Europe intensive weekend in Romania, with our partners and good friends in the Jiu Valley. We visited the No Limits climbing gym, the Anchor Valley church plant and its after-school programs, the read-aloud community library, and we did team-building exercises with a group of teens from the Lupeni IMPACT club. We heard the inspiring story of the New Horizons Foundation and their 25 years of life-changing service with youth development all over Romania. And we learned a lot about the Romanian Orthodox tradition by participating in a Friday Vesper’s service, as well as a private Q and A meeting with the local priest. The highlight of our visit was a Friday morning time with a lovely Romanian couple in their countryside back yard, making the Romanian delicacy ‘Zacuscǎ’ from scratch. Zacuscǎ is a delicious sandwich spread made with smoked eggplant, red peppers, onion, and tomato paste; and it often serves as a staple for Romanian Orthodox believers who typically fast from eating meat during both the Advent and Lent seasons. It was a very cold day in Mariana and Iosca’s back yard, but the fire that smoked the eggplant and the peppers and later warmed the entire mixture before it got put into jars for preserving, kept us warm. My highlight was accidentally discovering that Iosca, our host who was perhaps a few years older than me, was actually born to a Hungarian-Romanian family, and he spoke Hungarian as his mother tongue. Over time, however, due to a complicated geo-political story that left hundreds of thousands of Hungarians out of the re-drawn Hungarian borders in 1920, these families and their families sometimes intermarried and transformed into Romanian speakers, which is what had happened to Iosca (Jozsef). I discovered his heritage by accident when I used the Hungarian word for “yes” instead of just saying yes in English, and when he heard my “igen,” his face lit up and he started speaking to us in his long-lost and almost forgotten native Hungarian, which we could recognize much more than his Romanian. He and I had a delightful day with his rusty Hungarian and my developing Hungarian, and a mutual sense of mischief. He told us it had been since his parents died that he had spoken Hungarian, and he had forgotten even some of the basics. Our group also enjoyed participating in the weekly reading time with about forty children and their parents at the library club; and we were able to spend a few hours with a group of teen leaders talking about their hopes for their community and themselves.

Dizsnovágás

The other highlight in recent days was a very Hungarian cultural event that we participated in with a group of nine friends over the All-Saint’s weekend – a “dizsnovágás” or pig slaughter. We finally got to literally see how the sausage is made. Not for the faint of heart, this was something on Julie’s and my bucket list because of how many Hungarians we have met who told us that it was just part of their family’s annual tradition. Our group was made up of a mix of Hungarians, Americans, a Nigerian and two Dutch people, and we had two glorious days in which to ponder this part of Hungarian culture, and to appreciate the gifts of the creation to our sustenance. Some of us found the following prayer to be a helpful way to focus our thoughts: “Holy One, we are mindful that we are taking the life of one of your creatures today. May the shot be sure. May death come quickly. May we, by being nourished, help nourish the community around us. Amen.” We came home with some ham and sausage, some new friendships, and an appreciation for the work of farmers, butchers, and other people who spend their labor closer to the land than we do.

ReConnect time in Michigan

For those (many) of you in Michigan, we are eager to see you, either individually or in small groups over the next several months (mid-December through late May) – please reach out and let’s connect and set a time and place to get caught up.

Praise and Prayers

For safe travel to Spain and then the US, and a meaningful time of learning for the Cohort Europe team in Malaga next week

For a smooth transition to Grand Rapids, and meaningful time with family and friends over the coming holidays.

For some time of rest, and also of connection and planning during our time of ReConnect in the US. We hope to be present with our kids and our moms in ways that our normal life in Europe does not allow, and we hope for some time of retreat and rest as well. 

For protection for all those who are “on the move,” refugees and migrants, whether displaced by war, economic instability, hunger, or other reasons, and for governments and religious communities to work together to provide welcome, security, protection, and all that they need for flourishing lives.


Peace, friends,

Jeff and Julie Bouman


How to Give

Giving patterns in missions appear to be changing. As a result, there is increased need for your direct support. In this giving season, we ask that you consider a special or an increased gift to our ministry through Resonate. We cannot do the work that God has called us to without your generosity. Thank you!

  • Give online, be sure to choose the “Missionaries-Europe” option under “Please select” and then the drop-down menu for “Jeff and Julie Bouman”
  • Mail checks to Resonate Gift Processing, PO Box 30006, Lansing, MI 48909-9760
  • Please also consider an extra gift to one of our three Cohort Europe participants – each of these young women comes from a country where missionary giving is not as culturally common as it is for Americans and Canadians.

For Dasha, from Ukraine, give here.

For Pamela, from Syria, give here.

For Justė, give here.

Each of these members of Cohort has been challenged to raise $10,000, and we trust God to provide for each of them as they serve.


Sunrise in rural Hungary

Tri-color remembrance October 23 - 
remembering the 1956 Revolution against the Soviets.

Cohort Europe intensive weekend in Romania - 
With Brandi Bates.

With youth from the IMPACT club in Lupeni.

Young Adult Fellowship in Budapest.

Fresh fruits of the pig-killing weekend.


 

 

Boumans by the Danube - September 2025

 September 2025 Boumans by the Danube Update

Dear friends,


Julie and I are at home on a Saturday with no meetings or obligations for the first time since returning to Hungary in late August after a short visit with family. Like many of you, we have been tending to various obligations with work, church, friendships, and other responsibilities and opportunities. So, sitting her as the sun shines in through the window and looking at the day today as gift and opportunity, I’ll share a few updates on our lives since our last update.

We enjoyed about two weeks in August of good visits with family and friends in Pennsylvania, Illinois, and Michigan. Highlights included attending a glorious outdoor concert with our kids in downtown Chicago, appreciating the glory of Lake Michigan, American breakfasts and craft beverages with good friends, and family time with our moms and siblings.

Since our return Julie has gone back to work at Olive Tree Counseling Center, and my Cohort Europe volunteers (Dasha, Justė, and Pamela) are all settling to their host locations (Berlin Germany, and Malaga Spain) and they are engaged in intensive language learning for the first month. See below for giving information if you would like to support any or all of these three dynamic young women as they serve in Berlin and Malaga this year.

My university class on the music and poetry of the American Civil Rights movement has begun again, and there are 12 students enrolled. We took a road trip last weekend with Hanis, one of our Cohort volunteers from last year, visiting our friends David and Mary in Berlin last weekend – David and Hanis share a birthday, and we celebrated both during one of David and Mary’s weekly “language café” nights with about a hundred recent arrivals and other German language learners in Berlin. We also got to catch up with Pamela, our newly arrived volunteer there. Driving from Budapest to Berlin and back takes you through Slovakia and Czech Republic on the way, so we also stopped in Prague to spend some time with Sikama, another good friend who left Budapest last winter to begin PhD studies in Prague. 

Much of our time this fall will be spent (in addition to our regular ministry commitments) preparing for time away from Budapest between December and May (2026). The bi-lateral agreement between the US and Hungary requires that after five years of residency we must spend six months outside the country, and Resonate has procedures that will allow us to participate in a time of ReConnect with our supporting individuals and churches while we are outside Hungary. 

One thing we are working on that you might be able to help with is finding a furnished apartment or small home or condo in Grand Rapids that might be available for all or part of that time (mid-December 2025- end of May 2026). A snowbird perhaps, or some other situation where a place might be available and affordable – we do have budget set aside for this. If you have something, or know of something possible, please let us know.

Also, if you are interested in getting together while we are Stateside, either as an individual or with a group to hear about our work and our plans for the next few years, please let us know. I’ll be sending separate notices to church contacts with more detailed information about our available dates for church visits. We are eager to reconnect with many of you in a way that our brief vacation visits don’t always allow. 

Meanwhile, please join us in prayers for wisdom, for creativity, courage, and clarity as we experience these months of transition and moving around. We plan to keep our Budapest apartment, and are working on a creative potential sub-let arrangement, but it feels disconcerting to be leaving “home” once again. We also appreciate your prayers with us and our Grand Rapids church, Neland Avenue Church, as we navigate independence from the denomination we belonged to from 1915 until May of 2025. It is a time of sadness, but also of opportunity and new energy, and we are eager to see where God leads us in faith – your prayers are appreciated. And we ask for prayers in our process of reapplying for residency to be in place by next spring for our return to Hungary – yet another administrative detail taking up our time and energy this fall. 

Another highlight for us from our August visit to the US was the opportunity to worship with our friends at Loop Church in Chicago. Pastor Derek gifted us with a sermon on the many greetings offered to friends and fellow Jesus-followers in Romans chapter 16. In the spirit of that sermon, and that passage, we greet each of you in love and in the confidence that the “God of peace will soon crush Satan under your feet. The grace of our Lord Jesus be with you.” 


In confident hope,

Jeff and Julie Bouman


Giving information: We are grateful for, and eager to continue your financial partnership that allows to serve in this place. And if your church is looking to add a ministry in Europe to those you support, we would welcome a few more churches as partners as well. Details for supporting us can be found on our Resonate webpage here. After you tap the yellow “donate” button, you will be asked if you would like to donate in USD or Canadian, and then you will land on a page where you choose an amount, and then on the drop-down menu below you will choose “Missionaries-Europe,” and below that a drop-down menu will be a list of names, and you select Jeff and Julie Bouman. Below that are instructions for entering payment information. **(This same set of instructions applies for Justé’s page, Dasha’s page, and Pamela’s page for giving. Each of these new members of Cohort will be challenged to raise $10,000, and we trust God to provide for each of them as they serve.)**


PS And finally, as we sometimes do, I’ll offer the gift of a poem, “Affirmation,” that crossed my path sometime recently from Chicago poet, educator, and activist Eve Ewing:

Affirmation

Speak this to yourself

until you know it is true.

 

"I believe that I woke up today

and my lungs were working,

miraculously,

my voice can sing and murmur and ask,

miraculously.

My hands may shake, but they can hold

me, or another.

My blood still carries the gifts of the air

from my heart to my brain,

miraculously.

Put a finger to my wrist or my temple

And feel it: I am magic. Life

and all its good and bad and ugly things

scary things which I would like to forget

beautiful things which I would like to remember

—the whole messy lovely true story of myself

pulses within me.

I believe that the sun shines

if not here, then somewhere.

Somewhere it rains,

and things will grow green and wonderful.

Somewhere inside me, too, it rains,

and things will grow green and wonderful.

Sometimes my insides rain from the inside out.

And then I know

I am alive

I am alive

I am alive


Boumans and Vroons in Holland, Michigan, August 2025

Awesome concert in downtown Chicago with Bea, Moss, and Bastian. 
(Melissa Etheridge, and the Indigo Girls)

Final meal in Budapest with Dasha and Justė before
they flew to Spain to begin their year of service.

Lovely Lake Michigan

Bea with Grandma Weiser.

A weekend road trip to Berlin; coffee and cake with 
Pamela and Hanis.